Name that spider.....

Imagine my horror as I discovered this huge plum-sized creature living inside my basement bulkhead opening. Does anyone know what kind of spider this was?  This is enough to give a girl arachnophobia.

Time Flies When You Are Having FUN!

It just slipped by. Quietly,  with no fanfare... the 1 year anniversary of my sim Mooville. It was a year ago on June 19th, exactly 6 months to the day that I first visited InWorldz when I decided to invest in it by buying a sim.
It wasn't an easy decision to purchase a sim, not because of my distrust of the future of Inworldz, quite the contrary . Financial  constraints of supporting a dying venture  in SL  gobbled up all of my virtual budget. I believed from my first days when Ele and Legion patiently  helped me get John and his Mac into the world and always had time to help me figure out how to repair my mistakes, that I would own a sim in IW. When I finally let go of the Steelheart dream, I was then able to start fresh , to build my dream in InWorldz.

 

Mooville's first year has been an interesting and exciting one. I am still amazed that I could, as a fledgling builder in SL could work on an empty flat piece of land bordering the InWorldz Straits and shape prims into  a little waterfront village that it has become Mooville.

After one whole  year, Mooville (and my dream) is still alive! Honestly, besides a few loyal shoppers (you know who you are and THANK YOU for your support!) , there are few visitors to Mooville. No one besides me( and John) hangs out there. It was my hope that it would be a kind of gathering place.

It isn't, not yet... but maybe it is because almost everyone who is on line a lot already has their own land to hang out on....Or maybe it is because I am reluctant to advertise and try to get folks to come see what is there. I don't know.  . It's ok though, Mooville is mine ...built by me and I am happy that I have managed to make almost everything in it in a year. While it may not be everyone's cup of tea., it is  mine, and I am proud of what I have done. I couldn't have done this in Second Life.Maybe things will be different when we have more people, when the "civilians " arrive in InWorldz.

In the meantime, because InWorldz is so affordable, I can just continue to be creative , learning new things and building quirky little things. Who knows what the next year will bring?

A little bit of quirky

Mooville Spooky Yaga Skybox

A while back, someone described me on her blog  me as quirky. At first I was a bit offended . Quirky? Quirky? What the hell is that?... weird?.... strange?... bizarre? I took her comment it to be something negative.I was reminded of this earlier this week when a friend of mine from Germany  told me that someone had called her quirky and she had to look up the word to find out what it meant. What she told me made me rethink. She was flattered that she was called  quirky. She has always considered herself to be out of the mainstream and very creative. We talked about it and I feel much better about being quirky. I have always been like this. As a small child I suffered from severe allergies and spent my summers in the library reading about all kinds of things,  daydreaming about far off places or at home doing some kind of arts and crafts. I like having a very small circle of friends and a large group of acquaintances to hang out with from time to time. I'm kind of like a bee (bee) going from group to group , visiting .....gathering all kinds of tidbits. Currently, I have what seems like a million projects planned or in the works. Who knows which way my  quirkiness will take me. I like being creative and being a wacky-doodle as my kids like to call  my sense of style.You are welcome to visit me in Mooville (Soda Springs , InWorldz) to see what is up.   While you are there, check out  Spooky Yaga Skybox , my Prim-o-Sketch and the new and improved canned Whoopass. :-)

Are we having fun still?

Did you ever love something so much that you became kind of obsessed...it was all you wanted to do...and then you took on way too much and started to over commit and the fun thing that you loved so much began to feel like work? You started to feel guilty because you couldn't  commit to all the things that other people including the folks at home wanted you to do and  taking time to build something cool  for yourself seems like you were doing something wrong? Welcome to my  world.
When I first  joined the SL community in 2008, I decided that I would stay as long as I was having fun. When I joined InWorldz in late 2009, that thinking  still held true. However since March of this year, I have been wrestling with this and have decided that I am not having fun in my virtual worlds.  I have since revised my thinking on quitting. I'm not having as much fun, but I am not going to quit . I realized that I have invested too much time and energy , not to mention  money in my virtual existence to  quit right now.
 As of last week, I decided that will  be doing do what I want to do as long as I am  am having fun doing it. During the summer, I will be enjoying myself in the great outdoors and dropping in to my worlds when I feel like it. There will be no fixed schedule and I won't let myself  feel bad about it. I may try to learn some bells and whistles of my new Photoshop program,  I may even try to figure out how to customize my sim on a stick. I may or may not work on a very neglected Mooville. I don't know yet, what I do know is ...what ever I do chose to do, I will be having fun while doing it and who knows, I might even blog about it.

InWorldz Birthday Celebration Entertainment Lineup

Inworldz is now 2 and the residents are celebrating! Here is the official  line up, right off the presses! (thanks Drakon Cortes)
The official IW forum post:
 http://www.inworldz.com/forums/viewtopic.php?f=4&t=8022
check the forums  for updates and birthday newness.

The long awaited celebration is about to begin! Cut and past the IWURL into chat  to tp. Best to arrive with no AO HUD or other lagmaking attachments. You will enjoy it better and so will everyone else.:-)

Live Artist Stage
http://slurl.com/secondlife/InWorldz%20Events%20C/61/24/31 (Inworldz )

THURSDAY -March 31
Noon to 1:00: Arimo Teixeira
1:00 to 2:00: Russell Eponym
2:00 to 3:00: Euterpe Queller
4:00 to 5:00: Clairede Dirval
6:00 to 7:00: Mellow Wonder
7:00 to 8:00: Katarina Malaspina
8:00 to 9:00: Rock Doghouse
9:00 to 10:00: Mankind Tracer
Friday -April 1
Noon to 1pm : Arimo Teixeira
1:00 to 2:00: Ceci Dover
2:00 to 3:00: Pippa Exonar
3:00 to 4:00: Rafaella Docherty
4:00 to 5:00: ELiz Watanabe
5:00 to 6:00 : Reno Segall
6:00 to 7:00 : Annan Dreamscape
7:00 to 8:00 : Ichie Kamachi
8:00 to 9:00 :Hunter Montgomery
Sat -April 2
Noon to 1 pm : Zoree Jupiter
1:00 to 2:00:clarice Karu
2:00 to 3:00: Noma Falta
3:00 to 4:00:Torben Asp
4:00 to 5:00:Ronus Lefevre
5:00 to 6:00:Prowess Rayna
6:00 to 7:00:MrMikie String
7:00 to 8:00:Ichie Kamachi
8:00 to 9:00:ChrisThomas Underwood and Melodee McDonnell
9:00 to 10:00 :Annan Dreamscape
10:00 to 11:00:GuitarDebbie Henning
Sunday -April 3
11:00 Am to 12:00 noon: The Follow
12:00 to 1:00:Torben Asp

Dj Stage
http://slurl.com/secondlife/InWorldz%20Events%20C/133/168/23 (Inworldz)

Thursday March 31 
12noon to 2:00;Cameron Greybeard
2:00 to 4:00; Tyraina Talamasca
6:00 to 8:00; Pierce Bezner
8:00 to 10:00; LixxIn Zadark
10:00 to 12:00;Melody Lyric
Friday April 1
8:00am to 10:00; Cameron Greybeard
10:00 to 12:00 ;Boo Zipper
12:00 to 2:00; Pierce Bezner
4:00 to 6:00 ; DJTommy Seetan
6:00 to 8:00; Julianna Michigan
8:00 to 10:00;Healer Ladybird
Sat April 2
8:00am to 10:00; Cameron Greybeard
10:00 to 12:00; Boo Zipper
12:00 to 2:00; Airy Miles
2:00 to 4:00; April Chung
4:00 to 6:00: Tyraina Talamasca
6:00 to 8:00; Kizzer Applemoor
8:00 to 10:00; Cornelius Nerido
Sunday April 3
8:00 am to 10:00; Cameron Greybeard
10:00 to 12:00: Boo Zipper
12:00 to 2:00; Astoria Luminos
2:00 to 4:00: DJTommy Seetan
4:00 to 6:00; Cornelius Nerido
6:00 to 8:00; Hottie Boozehound
10:00 to 12:00: Melody Lyric

The Skin I'm In.



The New Me!



You  know that I have been passionately crusading for choices in African ancestored avatar skin  in Inworldz (and in the other grids I frequent too).  I have finally  have  what I wanted in the first place,  a choice. A choice  of what I want to look like, a choice between several pretty avatars with ethnic features that I want to  identify with. I found my ideal skin at Kiko Life Digital Cosmetics.  I will admit that I have an interest in Kiko Life. Osuntomi Melendez , owner of Kiko Life Digital Cosmetics is a friend of mine from SL .She has also set up shop in Inworldz  in ...Mooville!.  Even if she wasn't, I would still sing her praises. Kiko skins Rock! No seams, no blotches, no harsh features. Kiko Life  offered me  a huge variety of skin tones to chose from ...from pretty very pale (custard) to a dreamy delicious dark (walnut).   Each tone has lots of options 9 in all. She has also stocked her amazing makeups that are designed to go with any skin.  You can check them out by looking at her forum post or by popping over to Mooville. http://inworldz.com/forums/viewtopic.php?f=50&t=7376 I am a happy camper, I have what I want, but I am sure others are still looking. Inworldz has just taken a baby step into being a more diverse virtual world,  but at least it is a step.

Nigra sum sed formosa? Virtual World Diversity

Nigra sum sed formosa. I am black but beautiful.  I am not religious, but I will borrow from the Song of Songs.Ok, I am no Madonna either, but I am black and beautiful and I want to be black and beautiful in the virtual world too.

I may  also be different from some avatars who like to change skins as often as they change clothes. I just want to have one skin and some makeup that goes nicely with it, just like in real life. Growing up in America during the civil rights era, skin color for me has always been a hot button issue. As an African American woman behind this avatar, I want my skin reflect some version of my real life skin.(The part without the cellulite.) In SL , I was unhappy with the way I looked for almost a year. I searched and searched and spent thousands to find  a skin  that would  look acceptable. I still wear that skin today when I visit. I may change that soon having discovered something closer to my real life self.

 I have been in Inworldz for 400 days, as of today and I am still waiting for my skin. (I have been promised, so my wait might not be much longer!) I want my  skin to be brown, not tanned, not bronze, but brown and well blended. It is not a flat brown, but rather  full of life brown. and I want it to look like I have African heritage. That isn't asking too much. Below are some of the skins I have tried on, some I have even worn for a while. 

 Join me as I look back at the skins I have tried in Inworldz......( I will spare you the Ruth look, I  see her all to often.)

[GJCR] Free Skin



 

[GRCR] FREE SKIN



Kind of  pretty, but way too pale. A far cry better than Ruth, but not at all me. Something I picked up on day one , December, 19th 2009.. I really didn't wear it for more than a day. She just wasn't me.

                                                                                                                                                                    



VALIN (INNY QUINNELL)





VALIN (INNY QUINNELL)




Interesting, but again too pale Also picked up in the very beginning.Dec '09 

                                                                                                                                                                       



NEWBIE CENTER- DARKEST BRONZE (RAVEN CALLISTO)




NEWBIE CENTER- DARKEST BRONZE (RAVEN CALLISTO)

Found in the freebie area April 2010, this skin allows new darker avatars to look fairly decent.  I didn't like the way she looked in my viewer. It is a bit green toned and the facial features were a bit European for my taste.
                                                                                                                                                                       

BEBE- VERSION 1

 

BEBE-VERSION 1

Out of desperation , I tried to make my own skin. This version failed. As you can see the blending in the stomach region is horrible and the whole tone leans to the greenish side. A rich brown is not a very easy color to blend . Lasted about a week or two.
                                                                                                                                                                 

BEBE VERSION 2

  

BEBE VERSION 2


In this failed version, I over corrected and the whole thing went orange. I don't know what happened with the lips. The stomach area got a bit better I think, but still not at all wearable for me.She looked like she could be related to the Joker.

                                                                                                                                                                 

EPIDERMIS EMPORIUM- CONNIE





EPIDERMIS EMPORIUM- CONNIE


 This one looked promising in the pictures, but  when tried on was not at all me either. And while the face was a pretty brown, the color from the neck down did not match for me. Overall, the detail and shading were OK, the color from the neck down  just wasn't right. Great work on the cleavage though!

                                                                                                                                                                  

PULSE -AIMEE




PULSE -AIMEE

 I heard about great skins and tried out the demos. This skin is definitely not me. It is almost blue/green, streaky and very  masculine looking.  Scared me. I tried to make it look good, but I  couldn't. Oh my!

PULSE - NOLA MONIQUE




PULSE - NOLA MONIQUE

  This one isn't green, but more to the red tone ..I found her to be very harsh and severe looking. Again, browns are very hard and blending is a real bear.
                                                                                                                                                                       


  

BEBE VERSION 3




BEBE VERSION 3

 For about half a year, I wore this skin, out of desperation..I spent days blending to get it looking passable.  Far from perfect, especially in the areas covered by the lingerie,it was the best that I could  do. I did develop a healthy respect for anyone who makes and sells high quality skins.



KIKO LIFE DIGITAL COSMETICS- WALNUT NEUTRAL

 

KIKO LIFE DIGITAL COSMETICS- WALNUT NEUTRAL

 My friend from SL, Osuntomi Melendez makes and sells skins under the name of Kikolife Digital Cosmetics After much daily begging in Skype, Tomi was kind enough to bring me a sample of one of her skins. While this skin is not exactly what I want, it is the most realistic tone and best looking in terms of  blending. She looks pretty! I  feel happy and like myself while wearing it. Eventually, Tomi  will bring her line of avatar skins and cosmetics to Inworldz so that we can all have a broader range of skin tones, including coices of ethnic ones. Tomi understands what I want, because she wants it too.  I want to look like an  avatar with  African heritage, not a brown colored European one.
                                                                                                                                                              

I understand that  I am in the minority, both ethnically and in my way of thinking but it doesn't make me want  my skin any less. Put yourself in my shoes. Imagine that when you went shopping for a pale skin and all you could find was dark ethnic skins and pale skins you found unacceptable.. Sure ...some  might look nice , some even very pretty, but they are not what you want, and  lots of folks  tell you that  you should be happy because you have some choices.

You may not agree with me and that's OK. I took time to mention it because it is important to me  for the same reason that I make sure my daughter has some dolls to play with that look like her.  I'm sure there are others out there in virtual worlds who are not comfortable in the skin they are in and suffer in silence  because they have few choices. Granted this isn't important like global terrorism, homelessless, world hunger etc...It is just something that affects my enjoyment of the virtual experience. Perhaps,  if more people are aware of the issue , there could  be more real choices for everyone.
My search for a skin  has been a journey lasting 400 days in Inworldz, and I hope I reach my destination there soon. As for the other worlds that I visit, I am not holding my breath.

Shape: Bebe Mahogany

Lingerie: Bebe Mahogany

Hair: Myst by EMO-tions ( modified by Bebe Mahogany)

Unretouched Photos: Bebe Mahogany

Spidey sense

I was thinking....  Recently I have been reading a lot of posts in group chats, asking or discussing whether a certain product/ x or y vendor or group is in Inworldz yet. After reading the discussion in one the  other day, I gave it some thought because something bothered me. I  now know what it is. I'm afraid... My fear is that InWorldz will become more like SL. Not that SL doesn't have things to offer.

It reminds me of when I lived in the Netherlands. I was a member of an large expat women' s group. A lot of the other Americans in the group who had  moved to NL brought everything with them and set up  house just like home  in larger than average sized Dutch houses. When visiting them it seemed to me that I could have been in any suburban US neighborhood. Their kids attended international schools,  where all classes were given in English, they themselves made little effort to learn  Dutch and they shopped for US goods or  had them imported monthly at obscene  markups. In our monthly gatherings, they spent a great deal of time talking and complaining  about how they missed x product/service etc, and about arranging English language play dates for their kids. I could understand that some folks were only stationed there for a year or so, and didn't want to disrupt the children' s education, educating them in English, especially if they were older. But most were there for the duration and  they had brought their  American  lifestyle bubble  with them and were living happily within  it.  That confused me. 

Why move to a new place full of promise and opportunity and make it just like home?  I taught myself survival level Dutch and found a college kid to tutor me, joined the library, took  a pottery class in Dutch (the language of clay is universal ) I shopped at the local stores and made attempts to get to know my neighbors. I wanted to learn as much about my new home as possible. It was clear that I did not fit with those women. I didn't last more than 1/2 a year. I eventually found an English language social group closer to home made up of folks who embraced  living in a new land and made an some effort to assimilate. They didn't abandon their culture,  just the opposite. Most were contributing members of the society and their homes were  a charming mix of cultures as were their families. I enjoyed being an active member of that group for over  4 years, before moving back to the US.
I don't want InWorldz to seem  a less expensive autonomous colony of SL. Speaking only for myself, I want InWorldz to become  InWorldz, A unique virtual experience in and of itself. Growing and developing on its own, with the creative talents of its active residents, not copied from  SL. I have Second Life  already, I can go there whenever I want to. I am still a resident, a non tier paying one, but still a resident. I want this InWorldz experience  to be different. My question is how to make to this happen?  IDK, maybe it is just me and my spidey sense...

I'm taking my time with Mooville, I don't know where I am going with it yet. I can tell you  that I am going to enjoy the journey

Free can of whoop ass.

Here you  go folks, grab as many cans as you need!

Be careful, when you open a can of whoopass, point it away from your face. That shit burns.-Whiskey Day via Twitter

Happy winter holidays friends. My gift to you this holiday season.I hope that you will enjoy and be inspired by this selection of things that I have found recently.Happy 2011
Textures
Stripe texture maker 
color numbers to use in stripe maker
Free wood textures
Public Domain Images
Free stock images
Photoshop tools and tutorials
Photoshop keyboard shortcut 

Amazing photoshop tutorials
Photoshop Brushes
Graphic design tools
Some seriously cool free fonts
Eye candy  free trial download

Inspirational eye candy
Designflavr
furniture and home decor inspiration
Deviant Art 

Bebe Shoots the Moon

Lunar Eclipse 2010

Last night , I had  the idea to stay up to watch the lunar eclipse. A very silly idea because I often fall asleep around 11 PM, computer on my lap  surrounded by cats while pretending to dance or build with John in Inworldz. Last night was no exception. I went to bed thinking that I would have to settle for watching video in the morning. I had forgotten that I am usually awakened at approximately 3:30 AM almost every morning by the nature call of my over 50 year old female bladder. I know that that is TMI, but it is the reason I got a chance to witness this once in a lifetime event and to actually get a half decent shot of it. Happy solstice!

(edited to add additional photo)

I believe...
I believe in Santa. I believe in the goodness of people. I believe in the magic and warmth of the holiday spirit. When all is so dark, the festive holiday lights arrive to pick you up. In spite of some pretty horrific family tragedies and/ or deaths that have occurred all in December, winter remains my favorite time of the year, especially around Christmas.

Way to go Inworldz! 25, 000 residents!

InWorldz, what's not to love?

Primmy holiday goodness has arrived @ Mooville

Finally... holiday trees have arrived at Mooville! Freshly cut and decorated. On display in all of their primmy goodness.It was a lot of fun making these,  and I hope you enjoy them as much as I did while making them. 

As if that were not enough, Snowglobes are here too in the holiday store. Some are table top models and some you can hang on your primalicious tree.Be sure to check back because I am on a roll and  I will be making these all winter.

MOOVILLE- Live*Work*Play (InWorldz Url)

Have a happy............Bebe

A look back @ Steelheart Village

It started as a if you build it, they will come moment. I had a dream ....to have a place where all kinds of people could live work and play together, especially folks new to SL.
When I discovered SL, about 2 and a half  years , ago it was because of a not very positive newspaper article. I was curious to discover what kind of thing could make people so stupid. (still haven't found out.) What I did find was a great way to meet and  have with fun folks from around the globe. I had a great time meeting new friends and even learning to build. I wanted to have some place nice for my friends to hang out in and after consultation with  friends, the idea was born.

About a year and a half ago, I bought a 1/4 sim of Linden Mainland through an auction. As other land became available in the sim, John  snapped  it up. All in all, we owned 3/4 of the sim. We named our little venture, Steelheart Village.

Our village was our second life home after giving up homestead island living, as we spent all of our on line time there. We created to a group member sandbox, a movie theater,a community center, several rental cottages, an arcade,  nature areas with fishing and free horseback riding, and a Linden featured destination art gallery .

We hosted free holiday and builders marketplaces, built a ice skating pond and winter wonderland complete with a weather system.



Winter  at Steelheart

 




Holiday Market and Winter Wonderland

 

We have also played host to numerous stores, a dance plaza, Serene Bechir's poetry reading group, live music, live theater and comedy, Brendan Shoreland's  English Folk club , and John's amazingly cozy Black Kitty Pub.


Live Theater - Talented  Villagers





Steelheart Village Birthday Bash
 Comedian Sella Scarbridge( top rt), Singer Songwriter Lexus Melodie(left) Fiddle wunderkind Beth Odets(rt)

 

English Folk Club hosted by founder  Brendan Shoreland

It was also home to villagers who would otherwise have no other place to call  home. It was our little community and I thank those of you who helped to make it what it was. On December 8th, 2010, this dream will be over ...a mostly pleasant memory and I will miss it.

 On Wednesday at Noon SLT, the last village performance of the English Folk Club will mark the closing of Steelheart Village and my stepping a way from paying tier in Second Life. You are invited to come and reminisce with us, I have it on good authority that it will be fantastic! Brendan and Serene have found a new home  in the Village of Mystery and their idea of bringing world folk music to SL will live on. The Gadgeteria store with the amazing Profile Sniffy (lol) and Sit N Win will also live on, but in much smaller digs.

As for me, I will not bash SL or Linden Lab as it is a waste of time to do so. I'm not leaving SL, I'll will still own a tiny bit of land near friends, and I still have the business to run. I plan to visit with my friends and attend events that interest me. I live happily as Bebe Mahogany and (alt) Bebelou Naidoo in InWorldz  now....In an ocean front sim called  MOOVILLE  in Soda Springs.There are some stores, but it is not a mall. There is a place for being creative, hanging out and being entertained. Some friends from SL have stores there and I may add more. We plan to have live music music too.I don't have to worry about making tier, I  can do what I think feels right and looks right. I'm not sure what Mooville will be yet, what kind of sim it will be.  I can tell you this, There will be no drama and no stress. Mooville (Inworldz link) is my dream now ...It's all mine..It is where I live, work and play. It is my virtual playground...and you are invited to come to come play there is plenty of room.

Bebe

Princess of the Flies pt.2 or Bebe goes to Hell

My darling wonderfully gifted and creative child is still in denial. Has no clue why she did it or why it might be a problem for me. or for her. On Wednesday and Thursday , there seem to be no end to the wave of flies. How is this possible?  A quick check on-line tells me why. These little females can lay 500 EGGS! That was some serious banana. Must have been chock full.of larvae. Getting sick thinking of  it...
 I am going to Hell,  I know it for certain.I have  taken the lives (and souls if they have them) of what seems like 1000's of  fruit flies since this whole thing started.
My mass murder spree started on Tuesday with me swatting at them with rolled up newspaper. Not a very effective technique. I am reminded though of a  story that I read as a child....."Take that!" as she struck the flies such a heavy blow with the newspaper that no fewer than seven lay dead upon the table, while the others flew up to the ceiling fan in great haste."Seven at one blow!" said Bebe with great pride. "Such a brave deed ought to be known all over the metaverse , and it won't be my fault if folks fail to hear of it."
I ran from spot to spot trying to catch groups of them until I thought, this will never work, I'll be insane by the end of the day.  Think of other methods.  Think Bebe.Think.........

Method 2-  Fly Strips,  Ok, a bit old fashioned, and kind of disgusting to look at, good for catching a hundred or so.

Method 3- Isopropyl alcohol (wearing protection) in a spray bottle, knocked them down and killed the ones hanging on the counters and on the cabinets. Result, disinfected counters and flies refusing to land.

Method 4- Traps made  out of Mason jars and sniff sniff, my Shiraz. Let the flys go in ... cover quickly with a plastic lid, quick swirl  to get them wet, and let them drown.   Not very effective cause you have to stand there and catch a bunch in the jar . Another downside I didn't like having to share my good wine with a bunch of pests. Method 4A, Trap with apple cider. Produced nothing , I guess they don't like organic cider.

Method 5- (after consulting Google) Made the trap out of Mason jar,  a banana peel  and plastic wrap. Place  peel in jar, cover with taut piece of plastic wrap and poke holes with a fork  in wrap. The holes are big enough for the flies to get in, but they cant find the hole to climb out. This method produced  amazingly good but disgusting  results. I suppose the buggers were partial to bananas. By Friday,  The jars were full and audible buzzing was heard coming  from the jars.  Our  house is almost fruit fly free now and I can get back to the business of being creative  in Inworldz.
What happened to the flies in the jar you ask? Did  I release them outside or not.... ? You know the answer. I am going to Hell and my darling wonderfully gifted and creative child is still clueless (and will not be near bananas for the foreseeable future).

Princess of the Flies

I have been absent from virtual worlds for a bit now because I have been fighting what seems like a losing battle. I don't know when it started.with my daughter, but I guess it was bound to happen sometime. My daughter who is now 9 had started expressing dislike for certain foods, bananas in particular. This is unusual because ever since she came into our lives at the age of 6 months, she has loved food passionately! This is a child who loves Lima beans, sushi and Brussel sprouts and the one who asked me to serve broccoli and cauliflower at her 6th birthday party. Totally opposite from her brother who  lived on nutritional supplements and refused to eat for 5 years.
 I discovered on Tuesday  that I had a  fruit fly problem. I didn't think anything of it until late in the day when they seemed to be everywhere. I went a bit nuts swatting flies and looking for the source. They seemed to be hovering around the fruit basket and around the  kitchen food locker where canned good and baking supplies are kept. I checked the fruit and  that wasn't it, checked in the locker .... nope, nothing there. The more I moved, the more the flies went  buzzing about  EVERYWHERE!!!  EWW.  I knew at that moment, that the source had something to do with my kids. If you are at all squeamish, stop reading here. If you are a parent of bright and  hyperactive kids, read on, you will understand.

The flies seemed to be more concentrated near where my daughter sits for meals. I confronted her and she  acted like I  had 5 heads. Denial ain't just a river in Egypt  , as my late mom and Mark Twain used to say. I knew I was on to something.  Long story shorter now...... My darling wonderfully gifted and creative child as I shall call her, has not been eating all of her breakfast or lunch. Mornings have been tough for her and me too because she is now in an independent school 25 minute drive  instead of the local elementary school which is a 3 minute walk.  No rolling out of bed at 7:45 anymore. She is slow and unfocused and would rather read  and chat rather  than  eat and go to school. Don't get me wrong, she loves school, she is just not organizedWhile I am getting ready thinking she is finishing up her breakfast, she has been wrapping  up uneaten food in napkins and hiding them out of sight under  the buffet . This explains a lot, especially where all of my cloth napkins have gone. While this is a very creative idea, it  made me spend hours scrubbing and swatting and sacrificing my wine in effort to trap the bastards.
I suffer with severe seasonal allergies --- stuffed up nose  until the killing frost, so I am pretty much useless in the detecting scents department. I should have been a fruit fly... I would have easily found the rotting banana, rolled up  in my Battenberg lace napkin, looking very much like a corpse in a murder mystery movie. I would have also found the  bite sized shredded wheat nuggets, bundled up in 2 of my favorite napkins, still  moist from Monday's milk. And .... and..... all in all about a weeks worth of assorted tidbits from meals, all bundled up neatly in napkins. There is good news. All of these neat little bundles were in the pewter platters and bowls stored under  and not on the carpet. And the kitchen source? A quart sized plastic Chinese soup container,  with oatmeal and BANANAS! the mother lode!  I spent all day searching  for the buggers  and there they were, unbelievable. Just out of broom and mop range.   Exhausted, from dealing with the family and sending hundreds and hundreds of fruit flies to their death, I sat down and  managed to drink a fruit fly free glass or two of wine before falling asleep at the keyboard . Sigh
Day two...... Wednesday stay tuned.....

It seems to me......

It seems to me that we matter.What we say matters , if you take the time to understand where we are coming from, you will see, that we matter too. We may not be the big kids, the in-clique..... the popular ones, but what we have to say matters...... to us and maybe to you if you take to time to hear us out. Do not dismiss us.... Do not think that all we do is whine and complain.  Take a look and see if there is a real problem and address it. Because one day , we will grow tired of being dismissed and leave. This is not a threat, it is just what happens.

distressed chic chicken feet

Ok, so it has taken a little longer than I thought to write something for you. Non-pixelated friends and family have demanded a lot from me lately. I had hoped to chronicle  what I thought would be a joint project with John. Instead, I took it and ran with it working on it in the wee hours of the morning and not documenting a thing.
 It started when John  introduced me to Baba Yaga  recently. He was sculpting roosters and  made a giant pair of chicken legs that he jokingly dangled from his building platform. You know how it is... one thing leads to another and the idea was formed, Baba Yaga's house. For those who are unfamiliar with this Slavic folk character who flies around in a giant mortar kidnapping small children, I suggest that you  look her up. I mean a house with dancing chicken legs? How cool is that? I had to make Baba Yaga's house. Well it's actually Bebe Yaga's House.

It turned out to be much  more livable than I thought it would be. Originally designed for Tinies, it grew into a cabin sized house with a loft, large enough to use as a home for all shapes and sizes. Kind of distressed chic with chicken feet...Just in time for Halloween, my favorite holiday.

You are invited to pop by Mooville, Soda Springs InWorldz anytime to see them lined up along the mighty Moo River. http://slurl.com/secondlife/Soda%20Springs/145/132/24 (cut and paste into chat and TP)
Bebe

A bit about me.....

I should let you know that I am not a writer, I am a talker... so I tend to ramble and get long winded. I currently live in 2 virtual worlds, Inworldz and Second Life. On occasion, I visit the OS grid and have made infrequent visits to Blue Mars and to Meta7.  IRL, I live on the East Coast of the US and I also love to travel and take pictures. I've  lived in 5 US states, 3 countries.I've also visited many other US states and about a dozen other countries. I enjoy learning about the similarities and differences of folks from all around  the globe. I suppose that is why I love virtual worlds.... you never know who you will meet and where they might be from. (IRL I am a SAHM and  mixed media artist. I'm currently very interested  in fibers. I create up-cycled children's clothing and adult accessories.)
Second Life was my first venture into virtual world. It  gave me a chance to meet folks I never would have met. It also gave me a chance to be creative in a whole new way. I would not say that I am a master builder, but I do like playing with prims. It took me a while to figure out how to turn those blocks into something I could be proud of.
In SL,  I am Bebelou Naidoo  and I live in Steelheart Village in Kirkoswald sim. We recently tiered down and have a tiny version of the vision (1/8th of sim) that it  once was. I wanted to create a place where folks could live,create, work and play. With my partner John, we  assembled/built a movie theater, sandbox, arcade, community center, plaza for dancing, huge skating/boating  pond, fishing ponds, secluded spots, art gallery,residential cottages, stores and a pub. Steelheart even had it's own weather system and its landscaping changed with the seasons.  It was a great little community.
But something happened...It didn't work for us anymore, everyone wanted a mall with cheap rent where they could set up a store and forget it.The "gimme, gimme, freebie greed" culture proved too much for us. We tried to resuscitate it for year, but now the village community is dying, it is on life support now,  a dark shadow of  its former self. Only a few small stores remain and the small fishing pond where poetry is read weekly and the pub. It isn't all gloom and doom though. The Black Kitty is a bright spot of my SL existence.
The Black Kitty Pub plays host to a weekly LIVE music event. The English Folk club, founded by SL musician Brendan Shoreland, and hosted by poet Serene Bechir meets Wednesday at Noon SLT and brings live acoustic  folk/roots/people's music to us from all over the globe. Three different musicians play a 1/2 hour set each , free of charge to all who want to listen. They play for the sheer love of playing  music- no pressure, no tip jars.....just music. It is for this reason that I continue to own land in SL. This part of my dream still lives.
As Bebe Mahogany, I am beginning  to resurrect  my dream in InWorldz. I love the feel of InWolrldz. It is fresh, friendly and folks are creative and curious. My visit to InWorldz  felt right from the very beginning. In December 2009, I heard passing mention of a different kind of Open Sim grid. When I ventured in, it felt comfortable and welcoming, even though there were only  5 or 6 people on at a time and I spent significant amounts of time bald  and doing a cross-legged salute. InWorldz appealed to the pioneer adventure traveller spirit in me. I always vacation off of the beaten track. Good times were had at the coffee shop. Founders El and Legion were so friendly supportive and helpful getting us all settled in. I realized early on that I fit in and I would eventually have a home in InWorldz.
Mooville in the Soda Springs sim is the place where I live, work and play.... Starting fresh  opened my eyes to building. I couldn't just run out and buy it. I also began to embrace my Nikon and CS4. I dream of flying to get the perfect shot of old windows and the mighty MacGyver pen tool. There are stores and more to come.... A (Ubiquitous) Garden and Landscaping center, A General store ( with actual thing-a-ma-bobs), Architectural salvage shop (direct to you from my travels), Framelight Textures and the Music Pier. There will be rental houses and gathering/hang out places and live music very soon. I have been inviting my SL friends over  to join me while I build my creative home. Want to join me? Come on over, there is plenty of room to spread your creative wings too.