Name that spider.....

Imagine my horror as I discovered this huge plum-sized creature living inside my basement bulkhead opening. Does anyone know what kind of spider this was?  This is enough to give a girl arachnophobia.

Time Flies When You Are Having FUN!

It just slipped by. Quietly,  with no fanfare... the 1 year anniversary of my sim Mooville. It was a year ago on June 19th, exactly 6 months to the day that I first visited InWorldz when I decided to invest in it by buying a sim.
It wasn't an easy decision to purchase a sim, not because of my distrust of the future of Inworldz, quite the contrary . Financial  constraints of supporting a dying venture  in SL  gobbled up all of my virtual budget. I believed from my first days when Ele and Legion patiently  helped me get John and his Mac into the world and always had time to help me figure out how to repair my mistakes, that I would own a sim in IW. When I finally let go of the Steelheart dream, I was then able to start fresh , to build my dream in InWorldz.

 

Mooville's first year has been an interesting and exciting one. I am still amazed that I could, as a fledgling builder in SL could work on an empty flat piece of land bordering the InWorldz Straits and shape prims into  a little waterfront village that it has become Mooville.

After one whole  year, Mooville (and my dream) is still alive! Honestly, besides a few loyal shoppers (you know who you are and THANK YOU for your support!) , there are few visitors to Mooville. No one besides me( and John) hangs out there. It was my hope that it would be a kind of gathering place.

It isn't, not yet... but maybe it is because almost everyone who is on line a lot already has their own land to hang out on....Or maybe it is because I am reluctant to advertise and try to get folks to come see what is there. I don't know.  . It's ok though, Mooville is mine ...built by me and I am happy that I have managed to make almost everything in it in a year. While it may not be everyone's cup of tea., it is  mine, and I am proud of what I have done. I couldn't have done this in Second Life.Maybe things will be different when we have more people, when the "civilians " arrive in InWorldz.

In the meantime, because InWorldz is so affordable, I can just continue to be creative , learning new things and building quirky little things. Who knows what the next year will bring?

A little bit of quirky

Mooville Spooky Yaga Skybox

A while back, someone described me on her blog  me as quirky. At first I was a bit offended . Quirky? Quirky? What the hell is that?... weird?.... strange?... bizarre? I took her comment it to be something negative.I was reminded of this earlier this week when a friend of mine from Germany  told me that someone had called her quirky and she had to look up the word to find out what it meant. What she told me made me rethink. She was flattered that she was called  quirky. She has always considered herself to be out of the mainstream and very creative. We talked about it and I feel much better about being quirky. I have always been like this. As a small child I suffered from severe allergies and spent my summers in the library reading about all kinds of things,  daydreaming about far off places or at home doing some kind of arts and crafts. I like having a very small circle of friends and a large group of acquaintances to hang out with from time to time. I'm kind of like a bee (bee) going from group to group , visiting .....gathering all kinds of tidbits. Currently, I have what seems like a million projects planned or in the works. Who knows which way my  quirkiness will take me. I like being creative and being a wacky-doodle as my kids like to call  my sense of style.You are welcome to visit me in Mooville (Soda Springs , InWorldz) to see what is up.   While you are there, check out  Spooky Yaga Skybox , my Prim-o-Sketch and the new and improved canned Whoopass. :-)

Are we having fun still?

Did you ever love something so much that you became kind of obsessed...it was all you wanted to do...and then you took on way too much and started to over commit and the fun thing that you loved so much began to feel like work? You started to feel guilty because you couldn't  commit to all the things that other people including the folks at home wanted you to do and  taking time to build something cool  for yourself seems like you were doing something wrong? Welcome to my  world.
When I first  joined the SL community in 2008, I decided that I would stay as long as I was having fun. When I joined InWorldz in late 2009, that thinking  still held true. However since March of this year, I have been wrestling with this and have decided that I am not having fun in my virtual worlds.  I have since revised my thinking on quitting. I'm not having as much fun, but I am not going to quit . I realized that I have invested too much time and energy , not to mention  money in my virtual existence to  quit right now.
 As of last week, I decided that will  be doing do what I want to do as long as I am  am having fun doing it. During the summer, I will be enjoying myself in the great outdoors and dropping in to my worlds when I feel like it. There will be no fixed schedule and I won't let myself  feel bad about it. I may try to learn some bells and whistles of my new Photoshop program,  I may even try to figure out how to customize my sim on a stick. I may or may not work on a very neglected Mooville. I don't know yet, what I do know is ...what ever I do chose to do, I will be having fun while doing it and who knows, I might even blog about it.

InWorldz Birthday Celebration Entertainment Lineup

Inworldz is now 2 and the residents are celebrating! Here is the official  line up, right off the presses! (thanks Drakon Cortes)
The official IW forum post:
 http://www.inworldz.com/forums/viewtopic.php?f=4&t=8022
check the forums  for updates and birthday newness.

The long awaited celebration is about to begin! Cut and past the IWURL into chat  to tp. Best to arrive with no AO HUD or other lagmaking attachments. You will enjoy it better and so will everyone else.:-)

Live Artist Stage
http://slurl.com/secondlife/InWorldz%20Events%20C/61/24/31 (Inworldz )

THURSDAY -March 31
Noon to 1:00: Arimo Teixeira
1:00 to 2:00: Russell Eponym
2:00 to 3:00: Euterpe Queller
4:00 to 5:00: Clairede Dirval
6:00 to 7:00: Mellow Wonder
7:00 to 8:00: Katarina Malaspina
8:00 to 9:00: Rock Doghouse
9:00 to 10:00: Mankind Tracer
Friday -April 1
Noon to 1pm : Arimo Teixeira
1:00 to 2:00: Ceci Dover
2:00 to 3:00: Pippa Exonar
3:00 to 4:00: Rafaella Docherty
4:00 to 5:00: ELiz Watanabe
5:00 to 6:00 : Reno Segall
6:00 to 7:00 : Annan Dreamscape
7:00 to 8:00 : Ichie Kamachi
8:00 to 9:00 :Hunter Montgomery
Sat -April 2
Noon to 1 pm : Zoree Jupiter
1:00 to 2:00:clarice Karu
2:00 to 3:00: Noma Falta
3:00 to 4:00:Torben Asp
4:00 to 5:00:Ronus Lefevre
5:00 to 6:00:Prowess Rayna
6:00 to 7:00:MrMikie String
7:00 to 8:00:Ichie Kamachi
8:00 to 9:00:ChrisThomas Underwood and Melodee McDonnell
9:00 to 10:00 :Annan Dreamscape
10:00 to 11:00:GuitarDebbie Henning
Sunday -April 3
11:00 Am to 12:00 noon: The Follow
12:00 to 1:00:Torben Asp

Dj Stage
http://slurl.com/secondlife/InWorldz%20Events%20C/133/168/23 (Inworldz)

Thursday March 31 
12noon to 2:00;Cameron Greybeard
2:00 to 4:00; Tyraina Talamasca
6:00 to 8:00; Pierce Bezner
8:00 to 10:00; LixxIn Zadark
10:00 to 12:00;Melody Lyric
Friday April 1
8:00am to 10:00; Cameron Greybeard
10:00 to 12:00 ;Boo Zipper
12:00 to 2:00; Pierce Bezner
4:00 to 6:00 ; DJTommy Seetan
6:00 to 8:00; Julianna Michigan
8:00 to 10:00;Healer Ladybird
Sat April 2
8:00am to 10:00; Cameron Greybeard
10:00 to 12:00; Boo Zipper
12:00 to 2:00; Airy Miles
2:00 to 4:00; April Chung
4:00 to 6:00: Tyraina Talamasca
6:00 to 8:00; Kizzer Applemoor
8:00 to 10:00; Cornelius Nerido
Sunday April 3
8:00 am to 10:00; Cameron Greybeard
10:00 to 12:00: Boo Zipper
12:00 to 2:00; Astoria Luminos
2:00 to 4:00: DJTommy Seetan
4:00 to 6:00; Cornelius Nerido
6:00 to 8:00; Hottie Boozehound
10:00 to 12:00: Melody Lyric

The Skin I'm In.



The New Me!



You  know that I have been passionately crusading for choices in African ancestored avatar skin  in Inworldz (and in the other grids I frequent too).  I have finally  have  what I wanted in the first place,  a choice. A choice  of what I want to look like, a choice between several pretty avatars with ethnic features that I want to  identify with. I found my ideal skin at Kiko Life Digital Cosmetics.  I will admit that I have an interest in Kiko Life. Osuntomi Melendez , owner of Kiko Life Digital Cosmetics is a friend of mine from SL .She has also set up shop in Inworldz  in ...Mooville!.  Even if she wasn't, I would still sing her praises. Kiko skins Rock! No seams, no blotches, no harsh features. Kiko Life  offered me  a huge variety of skin tones to chose from ...from pretty very pale (custard) to a dreamy delicious dark (walnut).   Each tone has lots of options 9 in all. She has also stocked her amazing makeups that are designed to go with any skin.  You can check them out by looking at her forum post or by popping over to Mooville. http://inworldz.com/forums/viewtopic.php?f=50&t=7376 I am a happy camper, I have what I want, but I am sure others are still looking. Inworldz has just taken a baby step into being a more diverse virtual world,  but at least it is a step.

Nigra sum sed formosa? Virtual World Diversity

Nigra sum sed formosa. I am black but beautiful.  I am not religious, but I will borrow from the Song of Songs.Ok, I am no Madonna either, but I am black and beautiful and I want to be black and beautiful in the virtual world too.

I may  also be different from some avatars who like to change skins as often as they change clothes. I just want to have one skin and some makeup that goes nicely with it, just like in real life. Growing up in America during the civil rights era, skin color for me has always been a hot button issue. As an African American woman behind this avatar, I want my skin reflect some version of my real life skin.(The part without the cellulite.) In SL , I was unhappy with the way I looked for almost a year. I searched and searched and spent thousands to find  a skin  that would  look acceptable. I still wear that skin today when I visit. I may change that soon having discovered something closer to my real life self.

 I have been in Inworldz for 400 days, as of today and I am still waiting for my skin. (I have been promised, so my wait might not be much longer!) I want my  skin to be brown, not tanned, not bronze, but brown and well blended. It is not a flat brown, but rather  full of life brown. and I want it to look like I have African heritage. That isn't asking too much. Below are some of the skins I have tried on, some I have even worn for a while. 

 Join me as I look back at the skins I have tried in Inworldz......( I will spare you the Ruth look, I  see her all to often.)

[GJCR] Free Skin



 

[GRCR] FREE SKIN



Kind of  pretty, but way too pale. A far cry better than Ruth, but not at all me. Something I picked up on day one , December, 19th 2009.. I really didn't wear it for more than a day. She just wasn't me.

                                                                                                                                                                    



VALIN (INNY QUINNELL)





VALIN (INNY QUINNELL)




Interesting, but again too pale Also picked up in the very beginning.Dec '09 

                                                                                                                                                                       



NEWBIE CENTER- DARKEST BRONZE (RAVEN CALLISTO)




NEWBIE CENTER- DARKEST BRONZE (RAVEN CALLISTO)

Found in the freebie area April 2010, this skin allows new darker avatars to look fairly decent.  I didn't like the way she looked in my viewer. It is a bit green toned and the facial features were a bit European for my taste.
                                                                                                                                                                       

BEBE- VERSION 1

 

BEBE-VERSION 1

Out of desperation , I tried to make my own skin. This version failed. As you can see the blending in the stomach region is horrible and the whole tone leans to the greenish side. A rich brown is not a very easy color to blend . Lasted about a week or two.
                                                                                                                                                                 

BEBE VERSION 2

  

BEBE VERSION 2


In this failed version, I over corrected and the whole thing went orange. I don't know what happened with the lips. The stomach area got a bit better I think, but still not at all wearable for me.She looked like she could be related to the Joker.

                                                                                                                                                                 

EPIDERMIS EMPORIUM- CONNIE





EPIDERMIS EMPORIUM- CONNIE


 This one looked promising in the pictures, but  when tried on was not at all me either. And while the face was a pretty brown, the color from the neck down did not match for me. Overall, the detail and shading were OK, the color from the neck down  just wasn't right. Great work on the cleavage though!

                                                                                                                                                                  

PULSE -AIMEE




PULSE -AIMEE

 I heard about great skins and tried out the demos. This skin is definitely not me. It is almost blue/green, streaky and very  masculine looking.  Scared me. I tried to make it look good, but I  couldn't. Oh my!

PULSE - NOLA MONIQUE




PULSE - NOLA MONIQUE

  This one isn't green, but more to the red tone ..I found her to be very harsh and severe looking. Again, browns are very hard and blending is a real bear.
                                                                                                                                                                       


  

BEBE VERSION 3




BEBE VERSION 3

 For about half a year, I wore this skin, out of desperation..I spent days blending to get it looking passable.  Far from perfect, especially in the areas covered by the lingerie,it was the best that I could  do. I did develop a healthy respect for anyone who makes and sells high quality skins.



KIKO LIFE DIGITAL COSMETICS- WALNUT NEUTRAL

 

KIKO LIFE DIGITAL COSMETICS- WALNUT NEUTRAL

 My friend from SL, Osuntomi Melendez makes and sells skins under the name of Kikolife Digital Cosmetics After much daily begging in Skype, Tomi was kind enough to bring me a sample of one of her skins. While this skin is not exactly what I want, it is the most realistic tone and best looking in terms of  blending. She looks pretty! I  feel happy and like myself while wearing it. Eventually, Tomi  will bring her line of avatar skins and cosmetics to Inworldz so that we can all have a broader range of skin tones, including coices of ethnic ones. Tomi understands what I want, because she wants it too.  I want to look like an  avatar with  African heritage, not a brown colored European one.
                                                                                                                                                              

I understand that  I am in the minority, both ethnically and in my way of thinking but it doesn't make me want  my skin any less. Put yourself in my shoes. Imagine that when you went shopping for a pale skin and all you could find was dark ethnic skins and pale skins you found unacceptable.. Sure ...some  might look nice , some even very pretty, but they are not what you want, and  lots of folks  tell you that  you should be happy because you have some choices.

You may not agree with me and that's OK. I took time to mention it because it is important to me  for the same reason that I make sure my daughter has some dolls to play with that look like her.  I'm sure there are others out there in virtual worlds who are not comfortable in the skin they are in and suffer in silence  because they have few choices. Granted this isn't important like global terrorism, homelessless, world hunger etc...It is just something that affects my enjoyment of the virtual experience. Perhaps,  if more people are aware of the issue , there could  be more real choices for everyone.
My search for a skin  has been a journey lasting 400 days in Inworldz, and I hope I reach my destination there soon. As for the other worlds that I visit, I am not holding my breath.

Shape: Bebe Mahogany

Lingerie: Bebe Mahogany

Hair: Myst by EMO-tions ( modified by Bebe Mahogany)

Unretouched Photos: Bebe Mahogany

Spidey sense

I was thinking....  Recently I have been reading a lot of posts in group chats, asking or discussing whether a certain product/ x or y vendor or group is in Inworldz yet. After reading the discussion in one the  other day, I gave it some thought because something bothered me. I  now know what it is. I'm afraid... My fear is that InWorldz will become more like SL. Not that SL doesn't have things to offer.

It reminds me of when I lived in the Netherlands. I was a member of an large expat women' s group. A lot of the other Americans in the group who had  moved to NL brought everything with them and set up  house just like home  in larger than average sized Dutch houses. When visiting them it seemed to me that I could have been in any suburban US neighborhood. Their kids attended international schools,  where all classes were given in English, they themselves made little effort to learn  Dutch and they shopped for US goods or  had them imported monthly at obscene  markups. In our monthly gatherings, they spent a great deal of time talking and complaining  about how they missed x product/service etc, and about arranging English language play dates for their kids. I could understand that some folks were only stationed there for a year or so, and didn't want to disrupt the children' s education, educating them in English, especially if they were older. But most were there for the duration and  they had brought their  American  lifestyle bubble  with them and were living happily within  it.  That confused me. 

Why move to a new place full of promise and opportunity and make it just like home?  I taught myself survival level Dutch and found a college kid to tutor me, joined the library, took  a pottery class in Dutch (the language of clay is universal ) I shopped at the local stores and made attempts to get to know my neighbors. I wanted to learn as much about my new home as possible. It was clear that I did not fit with those women. I didn't last more than 1/2 a year. I eventually found an English language social group closer to home made up of folks who embraced  living in a new land and made an some effort to assimilate. They didn't abandon their culture,  just the opposite. Most were contributing members of the society and their homes were  a charming mix of cultures as were their families. I enjoyed being an active member of that group for over  4 years, before moving back to the US.
I don't want InWorldz to seem  a less expensive autonomous colony of SL. Speaking only for myself, I want InWorldz to become  InWorldz, A unique virtual experience in and of itself. Growing and developing on its own, with the creative talents of its active residents, not copied from  SL. I have Second Life  already, I can go there whenever I want to. I am still a resident, a non tier paying one, but still a resident. I want this InWorldz experience  to be different. My question is how to make to this happen?  IDK, maybe it is just me and my spidey sense...

I'm taking my time with Mooville, I don't know where I am going with it yet. I can tell you  that I am going to enjoy the journey

Free can of whoop ass.

Here you  go folks, grab as many cans as you need!

Be careful, when you open a can of whoopass, point it away from your face. That shit burns.-Whiskey Day via Twitter